What if I told you there is something better?
A woman came to me a few months ago because she wasn’t happy, and she wanted to see how I could help. Her business was struggling, she lost connection with people who she cared about and she felt lost.
A similar story that most of my clients share.
Often during an initial conversation, we explore the deep-down desires they have for life and often I hear,
“I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY.”
It is as if I hear my own voice when it is said. I can feel the hurt. I can feel the despair. I can feel that if something doesn’t change, all hope of what life could become would be lost. I used to be her.
I too used to send this “I just want to be happy.” wish to the universe ALL OF THE TIME… when I was sad, disappointed, frustrated, hurt, angry, feeling alone, confused and not enjoying life every moment.
Something changed a while back and it has been a beautiful transformation.
I’m not saying there was a day that I woke up and never said it again. But now it is rare, in fact, the only time it slips out is if my partner and I get into an argument and we can’t see eye to eye. We are practically opposites and our views of the world are as well. Sometimes it can be challenging.
Plus, He is 6’3” and I’m only 5’3” 😜
Anyway, that wish of “being happy” changed for me when I realize something a while back...
BEING HAPPY ALL OF THE TIME CAN'T HAPPEN.
Think about it, that would mean no matter what you would be happy. When someone you love is in an accident you would be happy, someone you care about gets sick and you'd still be happy. Or can you imagine if they pass on... Can you imagine not grieving that loss, not grieving because the universe granted your wish to be happy all the time?
Aside from this being terribly uncomfortable,
IT IS ALSO COMPLETELY IMPOSSIBLE!
As soon as I realized what is more important than being happy, I began sharing it with my clients and I love to sit back to witness the shifts as they embody the new idea as well.
They soften, they are less hostile, more hopeful, their physiology changes and they approach life from a totally different angle.
I would love to share what created the shift for me and for my clients.... IF you are the kind of person who is willing to challenge yourself and be open to a new approach. Otherwise, it will be of no use.
WOULD YOU LIKE TO KNOW?
Message me so we can set up a time to chat.
I could just tell you, but that would be like dropping off new Ikea furniture still in the box, with no Allen wrench or instructions. 🛠
I’d rather serve you better by discussing it relative to your life and personal situation. Then, we can determine how you will apply it to your life so you can experience the same enlightenment my clients and I have. 💖