I DON'T WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOU!!!

Something happened today with someone I care about. They were ready to move toward change. A new experience that could have been really good for them. And only a few moments later they jumped ship on the plan. 😞

It got me thinking about RESISTANCE.. Resistance shows up so often when we are going out of our comfort zone or ready to up-level in life. It has happened to the best of us and sadly most people haven't been taught how to spot it and what to do to keep moving.

You know what resistance reminds me of? 

That friend of a friend who you don't like AT ALL. You have tried and feel terrible that she bugs you so much but she brings no value to situations or conversations. She constantly reminisces about the past, like that is all there is to life - telling old stories over and over again. Stories you didn't care to hear the first time. 

Well, next time you start to experience resistance, say what you are too polite to say to that "friend of a friend"....

"No thanks, I prefer not to hang out with you anymore." 

When have you experienced resistance - the subconscious mind trying to keep you "safe" in your current circumstances even though you are ready to grow beyond them?

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION DOESN’T WORK..

..for everyone.

Nowadays, the Law of Attraction, affirmations, and sayings like “What you think about comes about.” Are common language. People utter a negative thought and they are looked at like they are smoking a cigarette while holding a baby.

For some, these positive mindsets and ways of thinking work and they are all they need to create shifts in their lives. For others, it can feel like healing is hopeless. If this sounds like you keep reading … there is hope, I swear!

You see, among other things, I am a certified advanced Law of Attraction Coach, so I am not completely dismissing the power of positive thinking and the impact of “acting as if”.

I am also realistic and understand that not everyone can begin their journey there. But with baby steps, it is possible to get there, even if it sounds impossible.

When you are in a bad emotional place, being expected to only think positive, act as if the universe is already delivering, is like asking someone who can’t swim to dive into the deep end and just know something/someone will save them.

You may not have had enough positive experiences in life to be able to trust things will work out, let alone work out to your advantage or beyond your wildest dreams.

So, we start here: I believe it is possible to need to be validated without being in victim mode and that validation can be a huge kickstart for the needed healing.

Then, I believe then, you can be led to release the pain you have been trying to let go of - this time permanently! And finally, start putting together a doable action plan to get you to a place of enjoyment and optimism for the future.

I will help you figure out how to release those old feelings, the beliefs they created, soften anxiety and depression, increasing your self-worth, your confidence and help you form a deep connection with yourself.

After that, maybe we can hang out and make our vision boards 😁

It is from that place that you will be empowered to move forward in a positive and healthy way, and we will create a doable action plan, establish your boundaries, how to honor them and uncover our core values (aka. Your Moral Compass) and why they matter so much.

Need more reason to invest in yourself and work with me?
Know this - This work is my passion and I have invested in training with the best! I have studied dozens of modalities so we can find the right fit for YOU and YOUR healing journey, no cookie-cutter coaching or healing here.

I figured since not everyone wants to vacation in the same spot, why would I expect all of my clients to connect with the same modalities, especially over and over again?

We get to explore what works best for you and you’ll have these tools forever!

If this approach is what you have wanted and not found yet, here you go! And here I am. Message me to set up a time to talk about how I can be of service to you.

WHY DIDN'T THEY TEACH US THIS IN SCHOOL?

The more years that pass the more annoyed I get at what they didn't teach us in school! Do you feel the same?

In my younger years, I wished they educated us about sex, sexuality, love, relationships, etc. 

Then right after graduation, when "real life" was kicking in, I wished they had taught us more about finances, like how to balance a checkbook, how to make a deposit, how much you should save, etc. 

And the older I get the more frustrated I become about how little we were instructed on things to do to ensure you would live an abundant, balanced and fulfilling life. 

Why didn't they teach us about investing, setting yourself up for retirement, mutual funds, etc? 

And why on earth did they not teach us about how valuable self-care is, setting boundaries, effective communication, how to stay true to yourself and build your confidence.

And can you imagine how much different your life would be if your teachers taught you about disempowering beliefs and taught you how to begin to deprogram the non-serving beliefs you had been indoctrinated into since birth? 

Can you imagine a life in which deep down your subconscious believes you are worthy, can be successful and deserve love? Maybe you feel you believe these things, but I assure you, you have hundreds of non-serving beliefs determining what action you take or don't take. They impact your relationships, your career, self-talk and actually, everything about your life!

Maybe our education system failed us in our youth, but at least now awareness is increasing! And new methods have been discovered to set new programs replacing the ones that have been stopping you from living an abundant life. 

I have studied many of these methods, trained with some of the best and I am inviting you to schedule time so we can start reprogramming you for all that you've ever wanted!

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